October 6, 2017Comments are off for this post.

NYC — A Weekender Guide

No matter where I travel in the world, there is always something special about coming back to New York City.

The energy and the food and the art and all the people and my friends who call the city home and that magical sense of possible-ness. Sometimes, I think I'd quite like to live there if someone would pay me half a million dollars so I could actually afford it.

But I digress now before I go on a old lady rant about housing prices.

Perhaps, I ♥ NYC because I've always loved feeling like a minuscule droplet of water in an endlessly powerful ocean. I find a strange sense of comfort in merging with the masses and roving unknown among the buildings that loom so large and all-knowing above your head. I find joy in discovering little hidden gems — whether it be a shop, restaurant or inappropriate penis cactus graffiti — only to be quickly brought back to reality by the putrid smell of trash. The dichotomy of it all is weird and awful and awesome, and it's what makes New York City...well, New York City.

If you haven't been and have the opportunity, GO. There is no other city quite like it. And know there's no way you'll ever see everything in the city in a long weekend (or lifetime), so the best thing to do is lace up your shoes, pick a few eats + must-sees, pack some moleskin padding (#noblisters) and get on walking.

EAT — Manhattan

Start the day at Russ and Daughters to gawk at their menu design and devour the Classic Board: smoked salmon, cream cheese, tomato, onion and capers on a bagel. Classic Jewish deli eats. An afternoon stop at Flora Bar (located on the bottom floor of the MET Breuer) allows your feet to rest while enjoying a glass of wine. For happy hour or dinner, the panisse (chickpea fritters) and white negronis at King are not to be missed. This West Village restaurant is run by three women and a friend of a friend is the bartender. HI PETER. While you're in the Village, stop by The Elk for a java hit or Jack's Wife Freda for a late lunch.

EAT — Brooklyn

Start your day right, and swing by Dough for ridiculously good brioche-like doughnuts or Bien Cuit for a twice-baked almond croissant. Located off the southwest corner of Prospect Park, Della makes for a lovely dinner. Everything we ate was ace. Or, go to Miss Ada in Fort Greene and devour the whipped ricotta with brown butter, honey and sage. It was — hands down — the best thing I ate all trip.

Don't forget — for cheap eats, there's always Shake Shack and a treat to be had at any one of the city's nine Milk Bar locations.

SEE

Art museum nerds unite! I spent an entire morning browsing the Whitney Museum of American Art, which was unexpectedly lovely. Between the magical minimalism of Alexander Calder mobiles, the history of protests exhibition and a few Ellsworth Kelly paintings, I was in my happy place. Plus, the view from their multi-story rooftop is selfie-worthy. I also went to the Metropolitan Museum of Art (aka The Met) for the first time, and their modern art collection far exceeded my expectations.

You can't help but be a tourist in NYC, so I managed long walks on the High Line, through Central Park and across the Manhattan Bridge for a total of 90,000+ steps while I was there (*pats self on back*).

SHOP

In an effort to be a responsible adult and stick to my trip budget, I didn't do much shopping in NYC. I browsed a few museum shops (because museum shops are the best) and made quick stops at the new Sezané store in Soho as well as the Everlane showroom. In Brooklyn, I visited Bird Brooklyn (dream clothing store), Regular Visitors (dream everything store) and Books Are Magic (dream book store).

[More photos on my Instagram]

September 24, 2017Comments are off for this post.

Links I Love / 16

Despite the 90 degree temps here in the Midwest (WHY???), it's officially fall.

A new season signals a fresh start for the months ahead and self-reflection for the ones past. After traveling & working in Europe for six months, summer had me feeling discombobulated — unsure of myself, what I want, where I want to be. I suppose that happens after any big life event as the familiar landscape of your existence shifts and everything seems new and weird and strange. You feel like the awkward conjoined M&M in a sea of perfectly round ones.

I moved away from friends and my home for the past seven years. I moved in with my parents. And I currently have no idea where my life is moving me next.

That feeling of being lost and confused isn't a new one. Gray area is necessary territory to cross when making any change. It's a temporary place we invariably find ourselves until our own truth shows us the next step. Instead of fighting it (my program mode), I'm learning to lean into it. The unknowing won't last forever. My gut will eventually know when the right decision is to be made. Until then, I'm enjoying that my mom cleans up after I cook, and my dad offers to pour me a nightly glass of wine.

If you're in a season of unknowing like myself, you're not alone. Take a deep breath (alternative nostril breathing works wonders for anxiety — even Hillary agrees, and that woman has been through the ringer), and perhaps enjoy reading a few of these links. Happy fall, y'all.

“Don't you love New York in the fall? It makes me want to buy school supplies. I would send you a bouquet of newly sharpened pencils if I knew your name and address.” Nora Ephron


How cute would this jumpsuit be layered up for fall?

Everlane denim is here! (srsly, those bone-colored boyfriend jeans)

Up next on my reading list.

I made these and this, and ooh ooh, they were good.

I FINALLY started (and finished) season 3! The most hilarious show.

The new Wes Anderson movie trailer. (via Cup of Jo)

Why cutting carbs is so difficult. *raises both hands*

Is the Stuff You Buy Over 20 Years Worth 40,000 Hours of Time?

You'll Never Be Famous — And That's OK.

How to help hurricane and earthquake victims.

CALL YOUR SENATORS (hint: 202-224-3121).

P.S. I started a 2nd Instagram account to Insta-vomit all my interior design photos somewhere, if you're so interested, find me at @designyspaces.

*Speaking of NYC — I'm flying there later this week and taking recommendations! On my list: Jack's Wife Freda, Co Pane, any of these Master of None spotsa visit to the MOMA for Frank Lloyd Wright & Louise Bourgeois, the Whitney for Alexander Calder, The Drawing Center and the new Sezané NYC store.

September 19, 2017Comments are off for this post.

Fall Wishlist

Unless you're a monster, fall is your favorite season like me, and even better?

THE FASHION.

Cozy sweaters, scarfs, long dresses, scarves, layers on layers, you know the drill.

I'm in the midst of a self-imposed shopping ban, which I'll perhaps talk more about later, so my fall style wishlist is a mix of things I already own (jeans, glasses, sweater (similar), t-shirt) with things I'd one day like to own (boots, midi dress, earrings). The mix feels like a natural fit for my closet — both approachable and attainable.

Also, if there is one thing I need in my life, it is honestly folk-printed ankle boots to pair with my apple cider donut and pumpkin oatmeal, obvs.